Myths, Miracles and Marriage

Brain MythsThere are a lot of myths.This is an attempt to bring some sense and reality into one´s day to day life.I may dispute many a myths but my attempts are also not infallible in each and every situation one may encounter.Making right or correct decision at a given moment is a knack which many of us lack. If we delay acting on a given (it may be right or it may be wrong) problem even for a fraction of a second, the most destructive procrastination, sets in.Then, any given solution is the base for next round of further procrastination.But if we keep an open mind and believe in what we intend to do, given a difficult problem or a preposition, then solving of the problem may come naturally, to anyone.That is what I call common sense.This is not easy, though.Lot of training actually hinder this ability.Lot of experience also may be a hindrance.We have several approaches to a given problem.Cool ApproachThe is the best approach.I sometime call it the Moment Meditation in action.Only a very few has that cool talent.They are the ones who become successful.The COOL people are actually very observant.If one understands no marriage is perfect and cannot be compared to another in a casual manner and would not let it to suits the counsel´s discretion and convenience, one has understood the practicability of the marriage and its coexistence. The couple´s own understanding of the problem or crisis point is the most important and what matters at the end of the day. Many of the problems lasts only a couple days the most and resolve spontaneously, depending on who is going to step aside a bit and take it on a long stride.The common sense should prevail always and all the time. Read more